In married life there are times where we need to compromise.In previous generation ,women were not compromising they were sacrificing . Sacrificing takes higher end than compromising.If our amma or paati felt that their self-respect ismore then our life would be ruined.Take for example if Jaya felt her self respect is questioned each time her husband n if she is not living with Dhayanidhi what would have happened to Jamuna n Tharani.So Jamuna you can fight for self respect but don't be silent n think that ur husband should understand.Yuva try to consult with ur wife.